Going to your first conference is a little nerve-wracking.  You’re not really sure what to expect.  You don’t know who you’re going to meet.  You don’t know what to bring.  And thoughts about “is there anything I should do beforehand” start revolving around your head.

Well I’m going through one of these moments right now.  With less than a week to go before Affiliate Summit West in Las Vegas, I’m trying to get ready for my very first conference.  Although it isn’t quite the traditional travel conference like TBEX, I think they’re still similar in a lot of ways.

Conferences are a crazy whirlwind


Going to a conference is a crazy experience .  With only 3-4 days you’re talking about thousands of people you’ve never met, sessions, vendor booths, networking sessions and parties.  To say it’s a whirlwind is an understatement.  So to make the most of it (and you probably want to because you pay top dollar for these things), you’re going to want to do some preparation.

The funny thing you have to realize about conferences is that it’s less so about the sessions themselves than the networking you get to do.  It’s the one time of the year that everyone is gathered in the same spot at the same time that all care about the topic the conference is about.  Networking is your chance to learn from others first hand, trade industry secrets (sort of like what I’m doing on this blog), to create business opportunities and to make life-long friends.  You can only do so much of that online.  Meeting people in real life is where the magic happens.

But here’s the problem.  If you’re on your own or you’re a first timer at the conference, how do you best make use of the time to create those meaningful relationships?  Time is your worst enemy and what’s tricky is that getting to know someone takes time.

This is where pre-networking comes in.

The power of pre-networking before your conference


Pre-networking is actually pretty simple and is something I’m sure most of you are doing already.  It’s basically the act of reaching out to people you’d love to meet and hangout with that you know will be at the conference.  What you’ll find is that people are more than willing to respond back and start a conversation or set up a meeting with you.

I originally heard of the word through my interview with Chris Backe of One Weird Globe.

Theory behind it:  By introducing yourself beforehand and getting the conversation started, you can skip the “hello my name is” step and talk as if you’ve been long-time friends.

Other benefits:  

  • Find out what they’ll be doing at the conference
  • Learn about unadvertised casual meetups and parties

So how do you do this?  Here’s a step by step guide to pre-networking for a conference.

1 Think about how early in advance you want to do it

Contrary to what you may think, you don’t actually need a lot of lead time before the conference to start the conversation.  I would say anytime 2-3 weeks before the conference is more than ample enough time.

2 Find people to say hello to

This part is getting easier and easier because of social media and technology in general.  Here are a few ideas:

  • Conferences are pretty savvy these days and will usually release a public list of attendees.  With Affiliate Summit, they built an online portal for this where you can search attendees by title, name and affiliation.
  • Does the conference have a hashtag?  If so, search it on Twitter and see who’s contributing it.  Use tools like Tweetdeck to filter the search for specific tweets and users.
  • Twitter list – Some conferences will actually build a Twitter list that contains all the attendees.
  • Conference specific Facebook group – Just like the Twitter lists, there’s usually a good community of folks participating in the Facebook group.
  • Industry Facebook group – If there are certain groups like ones I talk about in the Facebook groups you need to know about as travel bloggers, you can easily ask and see who’s going.

3 Starting the conversation

Just like how easy it is to pitch brands, it really just starts with one simple message.  Whether you do it on Twitter, Facebook or e-mail, a simple hello and introduction is all it takes.

As an example, I wanted to find out where all the travel bloggers were at at Affiliate Summit so I went through everything I mentioned in step 2.  I either sent out open blasts on the Facebook group to find out which travel bloggers was going or found individual folks on Twitter and tweeted them asking if they were going to the conference?  Each of those have led to further communication.

4 Set up a meet

The last step is to coordinate some sort of meeting or to at least find out where they’ll be during the conference so that you can say “hi”.

For Affiliate Summit, I found out that there was a blogger meetup so with the few travel bloggers I talked to, we agreed to chat there.


Like I said, nothing particularly mind blowing here.  You were probably going to do all of this anyways right?  Hopefully I’ve been able to reinforce this concept and putting a name to pre-networking.

The key to all of this is to make yourself known and doing some legwork before the conference so that you’re not trying to figure your way around the different groups, cliques and individuals during the conference where you’re already strapped for time.  No time to waste right?

So go forth and happy conferencing!

Featured image credit:  Cristina, Chasing Travel

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Will Tang

I'm the writer behind Going Awesome Places and through its growth, I've learned a heck of a lot from trial and error. I have a passion for helping others succeed and through TBB my hope is to empower you with what works (and what doesn't) so you know exactly how you can take your blog to the next level.

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